Parental love

I used to think my parents were controlling. And they probably were. But as I've grown up and as they've grown as parents, I've begun to understand their love for me.

It can easily be equated to one's relationship with God. You don't do things out of fear of being punished, but because you know that by following their instructions, you're trusting that they know what's best for you. Granted, they are unreasonable at times, but still, it's all about the trust. And trusting that they have your best interest in mind.

Long ago, I felt mistreated, imprisoned (literally could not leave the house), and felt like I was walking on eggshells around them.. And I still have this intrinsic fear that I'm going to get punished. BUT, they have calmed down a lot, so rather than speaking out of anger, they speak in a cool, stern and gentle fashion.

It's awesome that no matter what stage we're in and the new experiences that we need to learn to deal with, we all grow to be better (only if we're in the Lord).

I've come to respect my parents, and I still struggle in accepting what they think is best for me. But I've begun to understand them better. They've let go control and I've let go of resentment. Somewhat. haha

Anyways, I love my parents and they'd do anything for me.

Closing verses:

"Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the LORD your God is giving you."
(Deuteronomy 5:16)

1Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2"Honor your father and mother"—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3"that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth." (Ephesians 6:1-3)

20Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. (Colossians 3:20)

Happy early Father's day and a belated Mother's day! Wish them well!