Wednesday, June 17, 2009

mM..Qualities in a man I look for

HAHA, the title is pretty ridiculous.

A friend recently asked me what girls look for in a man (whom they want to marry).

Hence, the list.
I might not be able to speak for every woman, but here goes:

-Teachable
-Slow to speak
-Open
-Open-minded
-Respectful and understanding of parents, regardless of how unreasonable they can be
-Willing to try new things
-Completely immersed in God and always seeking God
-Truthful
-Tactful/Appropriate
-Has initiative
-Sense of responsibility


These below fall under my personal likes category:

-Articulate (always find that attractive)
-Enjoys nature
-Tall and ripped. haha i'm totally kidding.


So what about you all? Qualities guys find important in girls and vice versa.
Enlighten me.
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6 comments:

  1. SheningJune 18, 2009 at 5:25 PM

    HAHAAHAH funny deebo. tall and ripped--i wouldn't mind hahahah

    mmm i would like my future husband to have a good relationship with his family, someone caring, and thoughtful, decisive and knows what he wants in general and in life

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  2. mkaeJune 19, 2009 at 8:17 PM

    I think the ideal qualities for a woman fall under this one statement.

    - A woman who is passionately in love with Jesus Christ.

    From this, all the ideal qualities such as Godliness, patience, teachability, vulnerability, able to be led, and very many others will be found. The issue becomes how patient we, men, are willing to be patient for Jesus Christ to work in the lives of our sisters and how necessary we, men, are to help our sisters in that.

    ya dig? haha.

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  3. cPackJune 20, 2009 at 11:47 AM

    I would appreciate a ripped guy with a height that matches your height so that when you hug the guy it's just perfect ;P
    but sometimes even a man who is passionately in love with Jesus Christ cannot satisfy? all of us
    I appreciate guys who don't think that males are this superior group of people thus deciding that women should do domestic chores and such
    definitely hoping that the man would have direction in his life - godly direction for his future and career and such
    he should have qualities that will make him a good father
    im a sucker for guys who can sing and play piano (well) for some reason
    i hope they like dogs
    and one of those important factors is that they love me more than anyone else in this world...other than God
    ahahah yup

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  4. mkaeJune 20, 2009 at 11:02 PM

    @cPack: haha crystal. i wasn't saying that that's the only thing i'm looking for. i was just saying that the ideal qualities are found in Christ. But, as a human, my personal preferences do make a significant impact in what I would find attractive. I was just speaking generally. haha. my badddddd....

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  5. The BeaconJune 21, 2009 at 11:49 AM

    Thanks Crystal, I was about to mention to MMKae..

    If passionately loving Jesus was already a given, then what qualities would you be looking for? Like hospitable, decisive, etc..

    But MMKae has answered that he does indeed have some personal preferences that would make an impact on what he finds attractive.

    So, very NICE!

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  6. mahadonaiJune 23, 2009 at 6:02 PM

    Yay, first time checkin out this blogspot. Well i thought it would be pretty cool if i put qualities I and most men (I think) look for in a lady.

    - Loves God, not wit juss words buh action
    - Genuinely loves and cares for people (reflect how they love God)
    - has a clean mouth (no cursin!)
    - thoughtful
    - Likes to have fun and "let her hurrr (hair) down"
    - patient
    - Has a sense of humor, its also sexy n cool when gurls can make me laugh
    - It'll be cool of the girl is into sports, whether they play it or watch it (cuhz im a huge sports guy)
    - Is not shy but not too talkative, cuhz im not too talkative n so I need someone who I can have a good conversation with. But i also dont miss chatter mouth goin all day
    - someone who loves their family and is close with them, thas awesome
    - someone who likes to stay in shape, come on fellas we all want that tight bod haha
    - Someone who enjoys music, maybe can play an instrument that'll be cool, n if she can sing that'll be even better (hopefully she's into R&B)
    - Hopefully can speak some korean so she can converse with my parents esp. if we get hitched (nah mean)
    - tries her hardest in everything she does even wen the odds are against her (i.e. school, work)

    man theres prolly more buh imma stop there. Hope the fellas agree wit some of this. haha PEACE !!

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